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An Interview with Singapore Sexologist Martha Tara Lee

My first thought was "How did she find me half way around the world?" And then I realized that distance is so 20th century! It is no longer a factor that prevents our search for one another. The internet allows us to seek companionship and mentors wherever we are. So I said "Yes, I will be glad to come on your show." Then I immediately thought, Yikes! Would i understand her English okay? Would people in Singapore...or wherever... like me?" (Okay, so I am shallow like...

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"I don't believe in God" and other Silliness

I hear this statement quite often and, frankly, I grow quite impatient with it. Of course, I completely understand rejecting the God of our childhood, this Father with a strong resemblance to our earthly parents. Whether this all-powerful God shows affection or is a harsh judge and disciplinarian or not, at first, like our parents, he can do no wrong. Yet, at some point we realize he, like our parents, does not have all the answers and cannot make everything all right.

So when I hear, “I...

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What is sex positivity? In Less than 1000 Words

It never occurred to me that people would not understand this idea, but then again, we are so surrounded by symptoms of sex negativity that perhaps positivity about the sexual body is simply too rare to see. Others have defined sex positivity but how can Christians do so? The Incarnation Institute for Sex and Faith teaches an inclusive, science-friendly, and sex-positive Christianity by intentionally disallowing misogyny, homophobia, and erotophobia much of which has its roots in 2000 years of...

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Where is the Love? Repentance and Transformation

A Sex Positive Sermon - January 2015

Using the scriptures of John’s baptism and the baptism of the spirit, Dr. Dale explains how our definitions of sex sin miss the mark. She calls us to personal discernment of the life of the Spirit suggesting this is where Love is to be found.


Today I would like to focus our attention on John’s baptism and Jesus’ baptism (Mark 1:4-11, Acts 19:1-7 ) and tease out some differences. And then, because I bring an expertise and interest in the...

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Letting go of Blame: Sexual Assault and Ferguson MO

The outrage about Ferguson Missouri as a result of Michael Brown’s killing is connected to sexual assault though it is not, at first, apparent. As this tragedy and so many others are being told and retold, lived and relived, consider this faith perspective.

How easy it is to blame the victim...

The national media and a whole lot of white people have put Brown's personal life on trial thereby shifting the focus away from the police confrontation and his death - even though doing so silently...

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A Call for Volunteers...

The Incarnation Institute for Sex & Faith (www.incarnationinstitute.org) provides Christian educational programming that is inclusive, science-friendly, and sex positive. We are looking for people with the skills to fill these positions: 3 virtual operations assistants, 2 social media assistants, 2 Public relation specialists, 2 Marketing associates, 2 editors, and 2 Fundraisers. In exchange for committing to 2-4 hours a week and an annual tax deductible contribution of $100 to the...

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“Homeless Penis” Equals Vacant Theology

Once more a pastor has shown the drastic need for comprehensive sex education in both public schools and seminaries. The latest gaff of an evangelical pastor reveals he received neither. After establishing the dubious idea that God owns a man’s genitals, the pastor continues:

“Knowing that His penis would need a home, God created a woman to be your wife and when you marry her and look down you will notice that your wife is shaped differently than you and makes a very nice home…though you may...

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Rev Bev Interview on Sex, Body Justice, the Church & the Future

For those who are not familiar with my work or just want to hear some good news about our sexual bodies, pleasure, and an egalitarian dream for justice found in the Bible, tune into my interview conducted by Jaclyn Friedman on her program called, "F+cking While Feminist." Enjoy our 45 minute conversation and be hopeful for a sex-positive future that can usher in a culture of peace and justice...because we have made peace with our bodies. This movement will be driven by women and those...

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Demons, Laughter, Power & Privilege: Robin Williams & Ferguson Mo

My head is still reeling as I try to absorb two nearly simultaneous events; another unprovoked murder of a young African American man --this time in Ferguson, Missouri and the unexpected suicide of the beloved comedian, Robin Williams. Laughter helps us avoid being pulled under and feeling overwhelmed by the underbelly of our culture – race -- our inability to escape the tragic history and current reality that we value some people’s bodies more than others. In our underbelly we are so afraid of...

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Discerning Culture,Truth, & Christian Sexual Ethics

As King Solomon asked God for the ability to discern what is right, so we are called to discern how much of our Christian beliefs are based in culture and how much is universal truth for our spiritual journey. In hindsight we can easily tell that biblical characters struggle through the restrictions of their culture and its rules, but it is not so easy to see our own. Thank Goodness, nothing separates us from God's love.

  The first seven chapters of Romans is defining sin (or the flesh...

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